Penguin Mark Friedman happy to be on right side of cross-state rivalry
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Penguin Mark Friedman happy to be on right side of cross-state rivalry

He scored his first NHL goal against his former team, the Philadelphia Flyers.

Mark Friedman (Photo by Pittsburgh Penguins | Joe Sargent)
Mark Friedman (Photo by Pittsburgh Penguins | Joe Sargent)

The Pittsburgh Penguins’ newly acquired defenseman Mark Friedman is unequivocal when asked how he feels about playing for the archrival of his former team, the Philadelphia Flyers.

“I can say I’m on the good side of the rivalry, let’s put it that way,” laughed Friedman, 25.

Friedman, who is Jewish — a rarity in the world of professional hockey — has been in Pittsburgh for about a month, since the Penguins claimed him off waivers from the Flyers at the end of February. And he “loves it.”

“There is more of a homier feel than Philadelphia,” said Friedman, who has been on injured reserve since March 4, following a game against the Flyers. “It’s not as busy, not as noisy, nicer people. It’s not as dirty, especially in Cranberry where I live. It’s just a great neighborhood.”

The Toronto, Ontario, native was originally drafted in 2014 by Ron Hextall when he was the general manager of Philadelphia. Hextall was named general manager of the Penguins in early February, 2021.

Hextall “was the one that drafted me and gave me my first opportunity,” said Friedman. “I can’t thank him enough for giving me a fresh start — it’s definitely something I needed. I’ve got nothing but good things to say about him. He’s hard when he needs to be, strict when he needs to be, but he is very approachable as well. We have a good relationship and it’s just fitting that he’s the one who picked me up off waivers.”

In Friedman’s first game as a Penguin — which was against the Flyers — he got his first NHL point with an assist on Cody Ceci’s goal. On March 4, early in the first period in his second game as a Penguin, Friedman scored his first NHL goal — also against the Flyers.

“It was definitely an experience like no other,” Friedman told the Chronicle. “The first game turned out well, then the first period turned out well for the second game. It was definitely a big ‘woo-hoo’ when I scored, for sure.”

Later in that game, Friedman was injured and was still on injured reserve as of press time. Last year, Friedman said, he had some “bad concussions” and is wary to return to the game too soon.

“You never want to mess with the brain,” he said.

Friedman sees his role in the Penguins as a “a reliable two-way defenseman more leaning toward my offense, with my ability to get up in the play. I’m not the biggest guy, but I love to get up and down the ice.”

He said he’s confident in his skating ability “and my puck-smarts and my hockey IQ,” and is undaunted by bigger guys.

“I like to get physical,” Friedman said. “I like to play a hard-nosed game.”

Over the years, Friedman’s skating has gotten “dramatically better,” he said.

“My first couple years in the NHL, my skating ability kind of hurt me,” he said. “My gaps weren’t great. But now I’m using my skating ability and my speed to get me out of trouble and that’s where I think I can be relied on here, to make the first pass out of the zone on a break out.”

Friedman grew up in Toronto and attended Hebrew school until grade five, when hockey began to conflict. His Toronto high school was predominately Jewish, he said, and he remains close to several of his Jewish friends from those days.

He values his Jewish upbringing, he said.

“It’s nice being in a family that’s Jewish,” Friedman said. “It’s different from most of the hockey world. You don’t see too many Jews playing hockey, especially in the NHL. It’s definitely cool when guys ask about it.”

He enjoys celebrating the Jewish holidays with his friends and family back home, he said, and has a particular fondness for Jewish food.

His favorite dish?

“Anything my bubbe cooks,” he said. PJC

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