Chronicle poll results: Making amends before Yom Kippur

Last week, the Chronicle asked its readers in an online poll the following question: “Do you seek to make amends or ask forgiveness from others before Yom Kippur?” Of the 151 people who responded, 36% said “yes, every year”; 34% said “sometimes”; 18% said “no”; 8% said “rarely”; and 4% said “not sure how to approach it.” Comments were submitted by 27 people. A few follow.

What’s done is done — all I can do is seek mercy from G-d.

I tend to right a wrong when it happens … and not wait and have it fester.

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I need to remember that asking others for forgiveness helps both the one offering the apology and the one offering the “rachmones.”

I do this all year long, though I do try to review everything during these 10 days.

I do so immediately (ask forgiveness), so as not to be bothered by it. Yet, I do my best to make amends, if they weren’t forthcoming before Yom Kippur.

I believe the search and practice of becoming a healthy and contented (Jewish) person lies in the capacity to understand the psychological and emotional aspects of one’s inner core, and a belief that Jewish laws and teachings (i.e., asking for forgiveness) can enrich relationships and create a more fulfilling life.

I reaffirm friendships and connections on Yom Kippur. I do apologize for any confusion or whatever else may have happened through the year. Primarily, though, my focus is on sealing those relationships and friendships that I have.

Asking for forgiveness is very hard; you really have to humble yourself.

This is one of the most psychologically healthy activities that we Jews are called upon to do. It is a gift to all, and something that we are able to share with our associates who are not a part of our Jewish community.

With all due respect to the meaning and purpose of the holiday, I try to make amends with folks on an ongoing basis, as and when necessary. PJC